No Such Thing as Nothing

So often arguments can start and things can get over looked over the "nothing" bug, that tiny little gnat in your attitude that causes you to reply "nothing" to any question asked. I find that a relationship can be much easier when the "nothing bug" is exterminated. What that really translates to is on simple rule: don't lie.

It seems complicated right? How could a person, especially in a relationship, be honest all the time? You just simply do it. If the person you are with truly loves you and is in the relationship to know and love you, then no fact, feeling, opinion, situation or compromise could possibly change that.

We are but human beings with baggage, hormones, and preexisting assumptions. Its not our fault when things get hazy. What is our fault is our lack of ability to slice through the haze and find the love. If love is true, nearly all can be forgiven. I emphasize love being true. If you doubt your love for a second, not being able to get past things is a sure sign of legitimacy for that doubt. But, if you trust your love, if your love is true, not a thing exists that you cannot understand and move past. And let me just mention, this must go both ways. Love and relationships absolutely can NOT be a game of who did what, when and why. If love cannot be measured than neither can your relationship.

If at the end of the day you can look into the face of your partner and despite the fights, tears, arguments and things that may have happened find that you're just as prepared for what will come tomorrow- I personally think you are in good stead.

Avoid at all cost preexisting judgments and personal baggage getting in the way of love- simply acknowledge, analyze and move on with the powerful positivity in the presence of your relationship.

Here's to you, Baby.